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The Rules of My World

These rules exist to ensure clarity, safety and mutual respect.

Before interacting with me, you confirm that you have read these rules and agree to them.

These rules are non-negotiable.

Voluntary Participation

All interactions take place voluntarily and with mutual consent.

You remain fully responsible for your own choices.

I will never require you to start or continue a session.

I reserve the right to refuse or end a session at any time without explanation.

Respect

Respect forms the foundation of every interaction.

Even if emotions arise during a session, mutual respect always remains essential.

I expect:

  • polite communication outside our sessions;

  • honesty;

  • respect for my boundaries;

  • respect for my time.

Communication

All communication takes place exclusively through the agreed channels.

Unannounced phone calls or video calls are never permitted.

No unexpected messages outside the agreed channels.

I decide when I am available.

Privacy

My privacy is protected.

Therefore:

  • do not attempt to discover my real identity;

  • do not investigate my private life;

  • do not contact my personal social media accounts;

  • do not share our conversations;

  • do not record our sessions;

  • do not make unannounced visits.
     

Any violation of my privacy will result in the immediate termination of all contact.

Financial Guidelines

Money is part of the dynamic, but never at the expense of your financial well-being.

Therefore:

  • contribute only what you can genuinely afford to lose;

  • do not take out loans;

  • do not open new lines of credit;

  • do not sell your belongings;

  • do not make payments under the influence of alcohol or drugs;

  • all payments are final;

  • chargebacks are not permitted.

If I believe you are acting beyond your means, I will end the session.

Payments made during a session may form part of the power dynamic.

This means, among other things:

  • assignments may be carried out immediately;

  • delays may have consequences within the session;

  • discussions about assignments do not take place during the session;

  • you may always refuse, but doing so may bring the session to an end.

Payments During a Session

Boundaries are never a sign of weakness.

They are the foundation of trust.

Therefore, I expect you to be honest about:

  • your experience;

  • your expectations;

  • your financial limits;

  • your personal boundaries.

Deception or dishonesty damages that trust.

Boundaries

Disclaimer

I accept no responsibility for choices that fall outside our agreed interactions.

If I become aware that you:

  • act irresponsibly;

  • place yourself in financial hardship;

  • deliberately endanger your own mental well-being;

  • fail to respect these rules;

I will end the interaction immediately.

Aftercare

After an intensive session, there may be room for a brief debriefing.

This may include:

  • checking in on your well-being;

  • discussing any emotions that arose;

  • answering any questions you may have;

  • returning to everyday communication.

Aftercare is intended to conclude the session, not to continue the power dynamic.

Immediate Grounds for Termination

Our interaction will end immediately in the event of, including but not limited to:

  • lying about your age;

  • blackmail;

  • threats;

  • stalking;

  • racist or hateful behaviour;

  • violating my privacy;

  • repeatedly ignoring these rules;

  • attempting to reverse payments;

  • aggressive or manipulative behaviour outside our agreed dynamic.

Final Note

My world values control, clarity and responsibility.

Within our agreed dynamic, psychological power exchange may take place, but never at the expense of safety, mutual respect or anyone's physical or mental well-being.

When these principles are respected, space can be created for trust, tension and a unique experience for both parties.

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